OK, what do you suggest or recommend?
I've been into this hobby for a little over a year now playing with the toy stuff (and a couple brushless RTF), so my answer may not be the best informed..
That said, I'd recommend a FlySky TH9X. Can be had for roughly $80USD from BG. With the multi protocol module (currently on sale for $9USD) I can fly the following from my "fleet" :
JJRC H8 mini, JJRC 1000, eachine E010, floureon H101, MJX600, syma X5C, cheerson CX-10.
It can bind with dozens of other "toy" models, and brings a whole new dimension of flying these inexpensive, addicting little buggers.
AND when you move up from toy grade quads (i.e. build or buy BNF) all you need is a FlySky compatible receiver.
Hope that helped in some way. Good luck in your search!