Hi mate well yes they can be made tame, Hobby grade can have self level which will make it more stable, also stick scaling so you dont get full angle of attack so this will slow it down a little , some of the micro quads 6 axis ones do have the same aids as the larger hobby grade , Dumb thumbs its called and this will go with time your muscle memory will come in time one way to help this is to mark out a box and try and hover in the box and fly around the box , once the correction become second nature your dumb thumbs will go , the only quad that that your will fly like a pro on the first day out of the box is the DJI Phantom
I know you want a 250 racing quad these are one of the hardest to fly as they are very fast even pros crash these a lot your need lots of spare props