How close is "very close to me"? Read the maximum control range listed for your quad. Write it down. Take the auad out to where you normally fly it, and place it on the ground. Walk away from it with the controller turned on (If it has FPV capability, turn that on), without thtottling up to lift off. Measure the distance as you walk away until you no longer get a response from the controller, or you lose FPV reception. If that is farther than the control range listed for the quad, then you've established that it isn't "very close to me", but that you are attempting to fly beyond your effective control range. The problem (and conflict), is (at least here in the US) between the FCC, and the FAA. The FAA allows you to fly up to a maximum altitude of 400 feet, "within line of sight". "Within line of sight" may be to a line of trees or a building rooftop, 300 feet away from where you're standing, or to the vanishing point nearly a mile away, if you're out in the desert in New Mexico. The question with the latter is: Can you amplify the transmission to reach out to the vanishing point, and if so, to what level is allowed?